How to Ramp Up Your Sex Appeal Using Your Ascendant-Eros Midpoint

Who doesn’t want more sex appeal? We all want to, and the ability is within us all if we know where to look. What makes someone sexy isn’t the same for everyone, and what can make you stand out might not be the standard norm.

In astrology, we have a body called Eros, which is the asteroid of sex. This is the base energy we go to for sexy time. Meanwhile the Ascendant is our outer selves and how we come across, and is a ruler of our physical body. Put them together, and this means your Ascendant-Eros midpoint is where your sex appeal lies.

Midpoints are the exact middle of two bodies in the Zodiac. The midpoint of two bodies shows how they merge together. Activating the midpoint of two bodies helps them work in harmony and come together as one. 

For your Ascendant-Eros midpoint, you can consider the Zodiac sign the midpoint falls in, and if you have any natal bodies conjunct (in the same spot), opposite (in the opposite spot), or square (3 signs away). 

The beneficial aspects (sextiles and trines) aren’t considered for midpoints since they don’t have enough juice. Midpoints are theoretical locations, so they require more energy from the hard aspects (which aren’t considered “challenging” for the midpoints).

 

Ascendant-Eros Midpoint Signs:

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Aries means your sex appeal lies in your ability to be assertive and take the lead. Others might even find you being aggressive and angry sexy (though you need to be careful with that). 

Ascendant Eros-midpoint in Taurus means your sex appeal lies in your sensuality. Connect to your senses, to the Earth, to nature. The more grounded you are, the sexier you can be.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Gemini means your sex appeal lies in your intellect. Others may find your voice or way of speaking sexy, and showcasing your knowledge can be something others like. Use your mind and communicate.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Cancer means your sex appeal lies in your emotions. Others may find you sexy when you’re being supportive, encouraging, or nurturing. Being comfortable is important for you to showcase your sexiness.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Leo means your sex appeal lies in your ability to shine. Others can find your humor sexy, and you can turn people on with laughter. Creativity can also make you seem sexier.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Virgo means your sex appeal is quieter, more demure, and unassuming. Being loud likely doesn’t make you sexy, but being quiet and toned down does. Others can also find your attentiveness sexy.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Libra means your sex appeal comes out when you’re feeling balanced and peaceful. Others can find you sexy when you’re presenting yourself tactfully and gracefully, and you’re dressed well.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Scorpio means your sex appeal comes out when you’re passionate about something. Your intensity can seem sexy to others, and you can be super magnetic.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Sagittarius means your sex appeal lies in your ability to be bold and daring. Others can find your risk-taking sexy, and you can seem sexy when you’re taking chances.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Capricorn means your sex appeal lies in your ability to strive. Others can find your ambition sexy, and you may seem to get sexier with age. Being the boss can also be a sexy quality for you.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Aquarius means your sex appeal comes out when you’re stepping outside of your comfort zone. Others can find your quirks and the things that are different about you to be sexy.

Ascendant-Eros midpoint in Pisces means your sex appeal comes out when you’re being compassionate, caring, and considerate. Your empathy can be sexy, as well as your creativity.

 

Planets Aspecting the Ascendant-Eros Midpoint:

The Sun can mean you have an easier time showcasing and feeling comfortable with your sex appeal, and it can feel like a part of who you are. Being true to yourself can be seen as attractive to others.

The Moon can mean you connect emotionally with your sex appeal, and it can feel important to your emotional security to be seen as sexy. Your emotional vulnerability can be attractive to others.

Mercury can mean you’re more logical and analytical when it comes to sex appeal, and you can give it a lot of thought. Your words, your voice, and your smarts can all be seen as attractive.

Venus can mean you’re likely super attractive, and this might be in a more conventional way. Others can gravitate to you, and you can attract whoever you want.

Mars can mean you’re more willing to take the initiative with your sex appeal, and you can benefit from being active and engaged, and others find this attractive.

Ceres can mean your sex appeal is more grounded, and you can use your sex appeal in ways that make it resourceful (odd as that may sound!).

Jupiter can expand on your sex appeal, and when you’re channeling your sex appeal, you’re extra sexy to others. It can be easy for you to tap into your sexy side.

Saturn can restrict your sex appeal, and it might be more challenging for you to showcase being sexy. This may not come until later in life, and you can seem sexier when you’re older or in charge.

Uranus can make your sex appeal different in some way, and you can be seen as sexy when you’re embracing the unconventional and going for the weird.

Neptune can make your sex appeal difficult for you to pin down, and you’re likely sexiest when you’re not trying and not conscious of it. Your soul can seem sexy to others.

Pluto can make your sex appeal more passionate, and you can be extra magnetic. You can turn your sex appeal up when you want, and take control over it.

 

Recap:

  • your Ascendant-Eros midpoint sign shows how you best express your sex appeal outwardly

  • look for hard aspects by your natal planets to your Ascendant-Eros midpoint

  • planets aspecting the Ascendant-Eros midpoint can impact your appeal


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